The Kink Profile

I prefer to be the one making sexual decisions because it gives me a sense of control.

Forcing a partner to submit arouses me more than when they submit on their own.

Restricting my partner physically with rope, cuffs, or restraints turns me on.

I find it exciting when my partner shows fear right before receiving pain from me.

Treating my partner disrespectfully during sex or BDSM scenes arouses me.

I enjoy tying my partner up completely during sex or BDSM.

I enjoy keeping a partner as a pet, giving them a cage, bowl, and affectionate handling.

Feeling like a predator chasing its prey is erotic to me.

I want partners who submit to me full-time, and I’m willing to assume the responsibility.

Verbally degrading my partner or calling them humiliating names can be arousing.

I like taking full control in the bedroom and commanding my partner.

The idea of sexually torturing someone, with consent, appeals to me.

Dominating my partner sexually is something I deeply enjoy.

I sometimes like degrading or humiliating my partner sexually.

My ideal life would involve owning and leading a household of submissives.

I want my partner to serve me and address me respectfully as their superior.

I enjoy being dominated during sexual or BDSM activities.

I feel more comfortable when my partner takes the lead and makes sexual decisions for me.

I like being made completely helpless and unable to resist what a partner does to me.

Being treated disrespectfully or roughly during BDSM or sex can be arousing to me.

Erotic roleplay where I feel like prey being pursued excites me.

Being kept like a pet—caged, fed from a bowl, or petted—is appealing to me.

Being degraded or humiliated sexually turns me on sometimes.

I get more turned on being forced into submission than submitting voluntarily.

I enjoy being fully tied up during sexual or kinky activities.

The fantasy of living as a 24/7 sex slave appeals to me.

Being afraid of what my partner will do during a scene can be sexually stimulating.

I feel compelled to serve my partner with deep respect, treating them as superior.

I want to submit completely and serve my partner as my life’s purpose.

I like giving up all control in the bedroom and being directed completely by my partner.

I would give up everything to live the BDSM lifestyle I dream of.

I can switch between dominance and submission depending on the situation or partner.

I cannot be strictly Dominant or strictly submissive—I need both roles available.

Teasing or bratty disobedience toward a Dominant can add to the play experience.

Receiving consensual pain and seeing marks afterward turns me on.

Being afraid of what a partner will do physically can excite me.

The idea of being sexually tortured (consensually) is appealing.

Inflicting pain and seeing the physical results arouses me.

I enjoy the idea of sexually torturing someone (with consent).

I enjoy roleplaying as a pet (puppy, kitten, pony, etc.).

Being kept like a pet arouses me.

I enjoy keeping my partner as a pet.

Animalistic sounds or behavior (growling, snarling, etc.) turn me on.

It turns me on when my partner roleplays as a pet.

Large age gaps in relationships interest me.

I enjoy acting or roleplaying a younger age.

I enjoy treating a partner like a child or being treated like one.